Sense I made a new Family shared account I have used Inf health,FP,and Stamina on top of giving myself about 2 mill souls and I have not seen any messages yet on my account when going online. I have farmed for materials and have not edited any of my player stats.
I read a few messages of people...
Going to turn on family sharing and make a new character.
Going to use trainer offline and give myself unlimited health / stamina to just power through the main game till I get the NG+.
I'm going to get to lvl 100-115 and sit around there sense that's the meta atm.
Then going to go online...
Well I used the trainer sense the day the game came out and last night I played Co-op and invade other players without issue.
I have given myself at least 1 million souls and have edited all my stats / # of items.
I'm still not soft banned.